1. You must be 18 or older
No one under 18 may enter, under any circumstances. Do not pretend to be a minor, role-play as one, or ask anyone about children in a sexual way. Any sexual content involving minors, including drawings and AI-generated images, means an immediate permanent ban, and we report it to the authorities.
2. Consent and respect
Ask before you get explicit with someone, and take no for an answer. No harassment, threats, stalking, hate speech or bullying, in the main room or in private.
3. Keep other people's lives private
Never post someone else's name, address, phone number, photos or other personal details. Never share intimate images of anyone without their consent, and no deepfakes.
4. No selling, no spam
No advertising, links to other sites, selling of content or services, or requests for money or gifts. No flooding the room or repeating the same message.
5. Nothing illegal
No illegal content, no promotion of drugs or violence, and no sharing of material you don't have the right to share.
6. One person, one name
Don't impersonate staff or other members, and don't use extra accounts to get around a mute, kick or ban.
7. Moderators have the final word
Moderators may remove messages and act against accounts to keep the room safe. If you think a decision was wrong, tell us calmly on the contact page.
Staying safe
- Never share your address, workplace, passwords or bank details.
- People are not always who they say they are. Be careful with photos and on camera.
- We don't recommend meeting chat users in person. If you do, meet in a public place and tell a friend.
- Never send money to anyone you met in the chat.
- Use ignore and report freely. That is what they are for.